Hi Reader,

"I'll reach out after terminal leave."

When a senior leader tells me that, I don't pressure them. They're accustomed to pressure. Bombs, bullets, diversion tactics, and drone attacks quickly train you to handle pressure under fire. 💣🔥

James Pollard, a successful financial advisor coach, said, "One of the hardest things you have to do is actually convince someone that they need financial planning help." This is first-principles psychology at work. Americans are culturally trained to DIY. Military leaders are culturally trained to find solutions.
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So, how do I respond? I let them know that I'll be available when they're ready. Until then, I nurture the relationship, build trust, and add value where I can. For instance, sharing an SBP resource or a TSP Rollover decision checklist. I built these resources to serve, not to persuade or convince. Here's a link to a Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP) resource I developed: SBP Timing Flowchart.​
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This is not a sales tactic; it's fundamental human communication. No one wants a pushy salesperson.

The senior military leader is not only navigating financial complexity. They're facing an identity adjustment. For those who are heavily invested (pun) in their identity as an operational leader — supervising folks, overseeing operations, and making tactical decisions — it may be more difficult. They have a lot to figure out.

As an Army Reserve religious leader and soon-to-be senior officer, I've been navigating the civilian/military balancing act for two decades. However, going from a 365-24-7 Armjob y to a 9-5 civilian job is a different kind of jump. Different sets of clothes, rules, language, and culture.

So, here's what I want them to know:
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That's the paradox. It's the way life works.

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​Simpler in the fact that you will likely have a military pension and potential VA disability benefits to supplement your income. Simpler in that you don't have to deal with military bureaucracy and five levels of the chain of command.
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Complex in that you might now be spending more time with your family. Dynamics between mother and daughter might emerge because Dad is home more. Emotions shift in your household like desert winds in Kuwait. You'll be engaging (not assault-type engaging) with the local (civilian) population more often, and commuting in traffic to a defense tech contractor gig.

How you handle this transition will be crucial to your long-term trajectory. Some have done it exceptionally well. Others have stumbled. How will you handle it?
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Hit reply and tell me where you are: SIMPLER, COMPLEX, or BOTH. I read every reply.

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